Stupid and Smart People

Okay so he called!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SO, I didn't fuck things up with him like I thought that I had done. It was a great evening, watched movies and talked lots, did other things too, but we spent the majority of the time talking. AND, how I am so scared to talk about money with a guy and let him know how much debt I am in; I blurted out to him and didn't even realize I did that until later in the evening?! He's such a cool guy so I guess that I didn't care what he thought maybe. And I know people don't want to hear this but I have to say, I am comfortable naked around him?!! We sat watching movies like that, I have never felt that comfortable with anyone! Dumbass made comments all of the time so there was no way in hell that I would have done that. And he tries so hard to please me and make me happy, it's so nice. I know that I shouldn't get too excited though because it could end anytime. Although when we're discussing life plans together I don't think that it is going to end soon.
Now to the rest of the evening. I go out with a friend that I am trying to phase out and the only reason that I'm hesitant to phase her out completely is that she's someone who is always up to going out and I use her for that. That isn't nice but I do. I don't just ever hang out with her unless it's the morning after the bar, and she's just here cause she spent the night. Anyways, we go out. And there is this guy who is dating one of my other friends there. He comes and sits with J, she convinces to take his truck home and then stay and drink. So he finally acknowledges that I am there and asks for a ride. I think that he is really uncomfortable around me because I don't acknowledge him because that is how he used to be to me and would only say hello when J was around. So now I just ignore him totally. Anyways, I follow him to his parents and bring him back to the bar. On the way I make sure to ask how his girlfriend is and ask where she is. He says he "thinks she's at work, I don't really know." Really dedicated to someone you've been dating for 3 years or so?!! Then he and J proceed to get drunk and dance together. Then they make a deal that she won't smoke for the rest of the night if he'll dance to dance music with her. They continue to hang out and are glued to the hip together. Then the bar is closing and she tells me that she will walk home?! Yeah right!!! He jumps in and say that he'll make sure she gets home. Again, yeah right! So I tell her that he is not welcome in my house and DO NOT bring him there. She says she won't. Well, it is now 9am and she never came home! So I wonder where she ended up?! Now today I am going to tell her that I don't want to hear anything about it. She will assume that I am taking the other girls side and be pissed off. What it actually is, is that I HATE CHEATERS. If you don't want to be in a relationship have the balls to break up with the person before moving on and cheating. Now this goes for both the guy and J because she has a boyfriend too!! Again, I will be phasing out and this time I don't care about going out with her because she looked like a total slut last night and I didn't even dance with them because I didn't really want to even associate with her. So C, you can show this to M's girlfriend if you want so that maybe seeing it in writing will help her finally break the tie. I am not doing this to be mean but it was so apparent that he didn't care last night who found out about him and J because he knows that I am friends with S and as if I am not going to say anything?!! Stupid fuckhead. The unfortunate thing about all of this is if it does work between D and I, I am eventually going to have to be nice to him because he's D's cousin and they hang out together sometimes! Fuck.